Published in · 4 min read · Sep 27, 2021
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We all have a loved one who we want to show that we love them more than anything else. So often, we spend time and money buying gifts for our loved ones. But do you know the most valuable gift you can give someone is your time and attention? That’s because it means everything, not just financially but emotionally too! In this blog post, I’ll share with you different ways to show your loved ones how much they mean to you without spending any money at all!
However, if you’re looking at buying something materialistic for your special one this year, ask yourself and think again…………………
1. The most valuable gift for your loved one is you and your time
Time is the most valuable gift we can give to our loved ones. It’s a precious commodity that we all wish we had more of, but it never seems like enough. The reality is that time and money interrelate in complex ways, and the two currencies are often interchangeable. But when it comes to giving gifts, there’s one thing you can do for your family member or friend that will cost you nothing: Give them some of your time!
2. Start your day with a morning kiss
Nothing starts your day off better than a morning kiss. When you wake up in the morning, giving your significant other a kiss and telling them they’re beautiful can brighten up the whole day.
The sun will rise again tomorrow- make today count by starting it of right now with someone who loves you!
3. Give the gift of a hug
When you give the gift of a hug, your loved one will feel cherished and important. Hugging is medicine for people!
A heart-to-heart conversation can be therapeutic in itself. It’s proven that sharing an embrace has many health benefits, like promoting bonding between family members or improving mental health; it does not even have to involve words — just physical contact. There is nothing more meaningful than showing someone who means so much in your life that you consider them family too.
4. Give the gift of an encouraging word
Give the gift of an encouraging word to your loved one. Celebrate their successes, empathize with the challenges they face, and stay engaged in life together!
It’s never too late to give someone the gift of an encouraging word, especially if they are down in their feelings. They may need words that will help lift them and make things seem okay again!
5. Listen to them without interrupting
Do not interrupt your loved ones when they are speaking. Listen carefully and give them the input that will make sense to both of you.
If they have something on their mind that needs attention or wants some time alone in which we can talk later, let them know so the topic doesn’t go away but remains front-and-center until needed for discussion later down the line.
6. Be there for them when they need you the most
Be there for your loved ones when they need you the most. Support them in times of joy, or lend an ear if a problem arises; being available is what makes all those moments more precious and worthwhile!
7. Write them a simple note telling them how much they mean to you and why
I know that you’re busy, and I don’t want to take up your time. This is just a note telling how much your loved one means in this world.
I think we all need someone who will love us unconditionally; even if they make mistakes or have their flaws too — that’s what makes them human after all!
Love is a powerful thing that can make even the most mundane moments bright. A simple text message from you to your loved ones will bring them happiness without any effort on their part!
8. Listening to music together and dancing in the kitchen while cooking dinner
Music is the perfect soundtrack for any occasion. Imagine the sound of your favorite tunes going off together and the two of you dancing in circles, falling over each other. What could be more romantic than that?
So, create a playlist to listen to while cooking dinner with your loved ones. Dance around and have a great time!
9. Helping out around the house, like folding laundry or sweeping the floor
Another best way to show your love is by completing tasks around the house. You can help out with laundry, cleaning, and other smaller jobs that don’t take much time but still mean a lot!
10. Ask them what their favorite thing to do is and then do it with them
“What is your favorite thing to do?” my husband asked one day. I grinned at the question and was quite surprised too. “Watching TV with you-I love being able to cuddle up on these days!”
A few moments later we’re both watching something that seems nostalgic but new too; an old episode of Friends or Fraiser even though it has been years since either one had aired!
11. Share something personal about yourself, like a story from your childhood, so they can get to know you better
Sometimes we don’t know what to talk about with our loved ones, so sometimes it helps if you share something personal about yourself. You might share a story from your childhood that made an impression on you.
Conclusion
These are some of the best ways to show your loved one that you care without spending a dime. Time spent with you is the most valuable gift you can give them. What’s your favorite way to express love? Let me know in the comments below! I would love to hear from my readers and learn more about their thoughts on how they truly appreciate those closest to them!
